Saturday, April 25, 2009

Nice guys are often LOSERS.

I read it from an article it's very quite interesting that I would like to share.
We hear it all the time: "He was such a nice guy, and she's such a heartless bitch for dumping him."

Women find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure-They cling to her, and want to be "one" with her for fear that if she is out of sight, she may disappear or become attracted to someone else.

Nice Guys are always asking HER to make the decisions. They think it's being equitable, but it puts an unfair burden of responsibility on her.

Nice Guys rarely speak up when something bothers them, and rarely state clearly what it is they want, need and expect. Instead of comprimising and negotiating, they repeatedly "give in". When she doesn't appreciate their sacrifice, they will complain that, "Everything I did, I did for her."

More than loving the woman in his life, a Nice Guy NEEDS her. "She is my Life, my only source of happiness..." YECH! What kind of a burden is that to place on her? That she has to be responsible for YOUR happiness? Get a grip!

Oh well this is it. I went through and it is quite true for me personally :)

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